In a discussion, it was asked that when was the last time that we beseeched and really called upon Allah SWT for a need that we needed fulfilling. Interestingly enough, for many people, it is that when they were going through a really difficult time, when they really had a hardship, they would turn back […]

Allah (swt) is in control of EVERYTHING. – When a child is ill, He is the only one who cures. – When you receive your monthly salary, it’s because of His generosity. – When you face a difficulty in life, it only happens with His permission for a wisdom known to him. As a result, […]

A quick note that Istikharah (prayer of seeking guidance) can be done anywhere, at any time. There are three variations to consider: 1) Prayer and the long du’a This is the optimal way and the sunnah. A two rak’ah prayer followed by the well-known du’a we normally recite. 2) The long du’a only This is […]

Look at the difference between the Creator and Creation. Allah (swt) becomes angry when he is not asked. Whilst man becomes annoyed when he’s constantly sought. The Prophet (saws) said: مَنْ لَمْ يَسْأَلِ اللَّهَ يَغْضَبْ عَلَيْهِ “Whoever does not ask from Allah, Allah becomes angry with him” (Al-Tirmidhi). Persistence in du’a is actually a noble […]

I’ve been reading and writing on Linked in recently. Primarily for things related to my software company. One thing on that network though is the amount of these CEO, coaches, business-types etc who really push themselves to big outputs. It’s true, we don’t know if they really do what they say, but to be honest […]

My son had a school picture the next day, but really, really needed a haircut✂️ By time I get home, the barbers nearby had shut. I decide to do a DIY job and put my new hair clippers to good use against the advice of my wife. I didn’t know the clipper settings don’t match […]

Anyone with kids knows that mornings are spent making breakfast and taking them to and from school. With younger children, you’re literally feeding them spoon by spoon! It feels mundane. It feels you could be doing something better. Memorising Qur’an, doing some exercise or working on a project. However, everything we do for our children […]

Ten for the last ten nights 1) Try and stay awake during the odd nights. If you can’t that’s fine as well. But try and stay awake as much as you physically can. Highly recommend a ninety-minute nap in the day to stay fresh. 2) Be in a state of humility with Allah Realise our […]

I’m not totally against brothers listening to motivational videos on masculinity. Of course, you have to avoid extremism, unnecessary swearing and content which demeans women. However, we shouldn’t subconsciously aim to act like ANY of these people we see on Youtube or online. They do not reflect the prophetic model of masculinity – the Prophet […]

For many, Ramadan will start tomorrow and I just wanted to highlight an important part of this blessed month. There are a number of objectives, but two of immense importance are; 1️⃣ To attain God consciousness (Taqwa). 2️⃣ To attain forgiveness for past transgressions. Hence at its core, Ramadan is about ‘spiritual cleansing‘. Of course, […]